Its Friday 13th and its Ah Ma's bdae!

Started this post on the 16th but never gota finish it as the week from that very monday till now which is 25th... i was tied down with many things on hand! alot of mood swings within these 2 weeks! felt so tired that i have no wish to open up this blog to chase my days! fed up with baby a few times as she is starting to test my patience! she is still adorable but i really hate it when she head slam me or worse... pinch me. besides she is using cry to get away with her bad behaviour!!! i dun want to become a mean mum!!!! HELP!!! also the whole house is in a mess as i still haven got all the things in place in my new room. got new furnitures during the 2 weeks and got contractor in to fix stuff in the house and still trying to up keep the house but ergh its still in a mess and worse i feel so alone doing it! gx has been wanting to help to clear stuff but he's been tied down with work... poor him still got to worry about me and baby and work ... had alot of negative people around me... need to get away from it! give me a break! the only nice moment i got was a few hours getaway planned by gx and it was sweet that he brought me out. he was very sweet. and i will sure post on that... ergh!!! but not soon as i have more important tasks on hand! i hope the rest of the week i can be more productive and i will just post whatever i have done on my mil's bdae and do alittle update...i just needed to let it out.... i need to have more positive energy in me!
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November 13th Friday. Its Ah Ma's bdae! and so lucky FIL needed to attend a wedding dinner and they didnt open the stall today! little one as usual wakes up early to send daddy to work and acts as alarm clock to her grandparents! tried to stop her everytime by telling her to lie down in the room with me, give them more time to rest but she will talk in her loudest volume to get their attention! then my fil would pop in to get her out of bed! and thats what exactly happen!

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Pil and I brought little R for her jab. she was brave but she did let out a little cry when she was jab on the arm but she stopped pretty fast and was all smiley again. While the grandparents hurried home with her, cos the sky turned very grey suddenly... while i popped into the shop where i can get cute rompers that cost only $3! with dap's high fashion statement, it got me thinking what to dress little Rachel for xmas and in all i got 7 pieces for daily wear and for special occasions! 6 old navy and 1 plain white LS gap romper. i am happy with my buy cos they are very comfortable pieces and oh i love the kido images on the rompers and most of all they arent ex! yes they are not the most recent design but i dun need that!

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then i went on with my long list of things to do! Paid my bills and when i head to PS thats where my SPREE started! First i went to spotlight to check out the materials... so ex but i found something i liked to match one of the xmas romper i got. then popped into the dangerous Daiso.. dangerous as everything in there is so tempting and moreover at $2! slowly and surely its easy to chalk the bill and this was my "damage"! Next, i changed my phone, i topped up $90+ and i got my new pinky hp! then changed one more hp for my MIL. she has been asked many times to show our little gal's photos and got me to load some pics on her existing hp which the screen was so smal. then i decided to get her one hp that has a bigger screen. that my "sudden" bdae gift to her! lastly i picked up dear's belated bdae gift from SIL and me. Happy to see to see Seahorse Brand shop at PS and even happier that i got the mattress at 50% off. the 3 folds mattress was not bad as i like the firmness of the mattress! got him bedsheets too! with my heavy and bulky loot, had to Q for cab as it was pouring crazy and head home to surprise my dear who was on half day with his mattress and my mil with the hp.

i want to thank her for her hard work, looking after baby and me, on top of her housework and still have to work at the stall. did tell her the phone was a $0 phone but she didnt mind! then i gave my gal early xmas present! got her a really cute snowman from Barang that is very pretty and it changes many colours and she liked it! i got a reindeer and santa from daiso to make a decorative xmas corner for my baby gal too! rest for awhile after taking my late lunch, i got baby all washed up and prep for our nite outing to celebrate grandma's bdae!

at first i had headache finding clothings to match the pretty pink with black pokka dots stocking .... then i chanced upon a piece handled down by my twin cousins and it was perfect! a white velvety material dress with mini light pink pokka dots! to my surprise, it was a new dress as the tag was still on the carter dress! how lucky Rachel had new dress and new stockings to wear for the nite out! my gal loves pokka dots! very vain cos she knows she wear very pretty, kept looking into the mirror when my fil carried her!

the jam on the way to enter orchard was crazy! baby started to fidget so much in the car and it was so difficult to hold her down! after sending FIL to furama to attend wedding dinner, we continued with the jam to Central. we werew to meet sil who was queueing for seat at a jap restaurant at Central. its mil, gx, baby and also my 1st time at Central. Hated the car park! got so giddy! its a stupid design! round and round non-stop! while waiting for the seat, alot of people walked pass and loved our little gal's stockings! could hear everyone gog gogogaga over it!

bda habit of our little one.... she can't sit still... so we took turns to carry her! while i was out walking about with her, i bumped into an old classmate, my quiet friend in SI! the weird thing was i just added her on FB that morning! i waved to gx and got him out to say hi... looking at his face, i knew he didnt recognise our classmate.... i told him, its our classmate and he blurred as he tot she was my fren.... closer look and he was shocked! Lina has changed so much that he didnt recognise her! we had a short chat and it was good to see her!

the food was ok... won't say its fantastic... just dun ever order Yuzu? some kind of Yam rice... OMG it tasted just like PUKE! the pic is the bowl of rice topped with spring onion and its before the pic taken with mil and sil.... also the service ... ok its gota do with the guy who came to tell us off ... we didnt see the time and PLEASE we won't know the place is closing as we were not given the bill to say they were closing and please we were sitted at the end of the restaurant and they should have presented the bill 30mins ago it they were closed 30mins ago!!! the way that stupid guy phased it was dam sickening! WE WERE CLOSED 30mins AGO CAN YOU SETTLE YOUR BILL NOW! said with one kind of attititude and tone.... its a JAP restaurant.... wheres the service!!! no way am i gog to eat there again! spoil mood!

we were still too early to go pick fil up, so we explored the place. dun like the external escalator... too long and too open for my liking and gave me height phobia to be on it! generally gx and i didnt like the place too much... sadly, the newer shopping centres dun really have much to offer and the layout is weird! only thing was that they have interesting art pieces but how much can these attract people to go back there?

Our first family xmas picture!

went home and we cut the cake sil bot for mil. gx gave the longchamp handbag he bought for his mum. she was happy! she said the best gift this year is.... our dear baby.